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Problems That Include Dating A Mexican..
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hey guys delightful straight back to our Funnel what was that? two weeks back we created a video clip exactly where Joss was discussing the issues which come with dating a German with dating him, specifically nicely.. nicely these days we’re about to… are you ok? I have got allergy symptoms dude! right now we’re about to transform it all around and I’m about to explain to you all of the difficulties which come with dating a Mexican a lot more precisely, this specific one particular right here I’m so scared of this video! I’m gonna get offended big time nevertheless i know you like me and I know you confidentially really like all of those reasons for having me you believe so? I’m fairly certain each and every them… how dare you guy because like I said last time: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I love Mexicans. I love this particular one particularly Mexico is a very varied land and so are individuals.. indeed that’s extremely correct we may be found in each color, personality, shape and form therefore we don’t desire to generalize nearly anything.. we’re not declaring that every Mexican does those ideas! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn English and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, 10bbwdatingsites Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! expect to meet close to 100 or 200 people 1 day which are area of the household which can be only area of the household! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the meals you will gain bodyweight and also this is due to a couple of things: first, of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and in addition on top of that it’s tough to refuse simply because Mexican meals is extremely delicious Oh yeah my god I miss it a lot… please give me Enchiladas Potosinas you should! for me also you should another reason why you’re gonna get excess fat as a result of meals is due to the fact it’s very cheap in comparison to Germany correct! In the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes., lets go to the next point now. I’m actually also later I’m like Mexican.. you’re 50 % Mexican that’s basically a stereotype that I hate I dislike when people inform me: you’re gonna be late since you’re Mexican but I’m later constantly! regardless if I consider my very best… that’s one thing I’ve fought with for a long time another point that we was required to become accustomed to a whole lot: you may get terrified while driving a vehicle I don’t would like to generate in Mexico as well as once your lover, in cases like this she, is traveling Mexico you, feel as if: in which will be the regulations? exactly where will be the outlines on a lawn that tell you in which lane you have to go and also the holes dude oh my lord there may be one street I have to take every time I check out my home they have numerous holes.. I discovered them my cardiovascular system I’m like… when you get with an intersection there is not really a principle saying who are able to go first Indeed! – there are also no signs you typically inform me, the main one in the largest road can go first but for reasons unknown each of the Mexicans know where you should drive it’s sound judgment bro! it was actually the most awful in Mexico Area there was clearly a single awesome occupied street and that we have been from a tiny neighborhood and all the individuals from your modest road were actually just moving similar to this around all of those other automobiles in Mexico Metropolis I noticed my life move through my head for real like several periods and the individuals from the ubers have been like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather conditions right now? speaking to us in the long run is actually pretty impressive due to the fact Mexicans actually learn how to drive in ridiculous circumstances! ok the next stage can be a humorous 1 but in addition a sad 1.. occasionally for squares of toilet pieces of paper is actually all that you’ll get where by do you experience that? seriously! we were in the industry in Mexico City and i also wished for to attend the toilet and also this person in front virtually gave me 4 squares of toilet pieces of paper here, do your thing! and I was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and I advised him: should i have a different one? I didn’t know it was a challenge to suit your needs I am talking about in Germany you will discover potty paper proper near the bathroom.. yeah in Mexico too! yeah alright that doesn’t take place frequently.. We have to say this took place like 2 times if you ask me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: primary or number two? If you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- ., and if you say one she gives you one square and. But no, i don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”! this is merely the direction they are they’re like this… so don’t obtain your expectations up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not making him step out! ” which is a little bit a lot of folks but… do i need to remind you of last night? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -alright you might be like.. and once I started dating you I found myself like “wow a completely new w0rld! ” I have a concept although and i also know this can be about to make me seem crazy but notice me out I think that a great deal of this considering is formed by telenovelas. Don’t arrive in my opinion! perhaps you have seen a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are really spectacular and they’re so envious and they’re so like “he’s my own she’s by no means gonna take him from me! ” why is this young lady staring at you? this foolish $·Per cent·” footnote: It has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense.., guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly. I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! In Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this,. That is see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing? I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend, ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no? in Germany guys can remain in the girlfriend’s home or ladies can tell the boyfriend’s residence even when they’re less than 18, probably 16 they could stay at the girlfriends of boyfriend’s home sinners! and then in Mexico they think the worst of people, they are doing a bit of extremely bad stuff that they are not able to do any place else one of the most repeated messages I become from lovers is young girls which are desperately inquiring me how do you make Janik know that he are not able to remain? or how can I make my parents fully grasp? it’s so hard. -it’s hard for us way too -indeed both sides simply because in the beginning you couldn’t understand it you were like “I don’t have it” I had been 22 or 23 yrs old when we started out dating and so i was like “I’m so outdated and so i are not able to be in a similar space as her” and my sibling is even more mature and her sweetheart couldn’t continue to be there I’m a mature. -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but if you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. If it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down if and below you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss, – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know!